Thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers. I'm doing well after my surgery. I actually went back to work this Tuesday, and I see the doc on
Monday for my 6 week appointment. Craig and I go for our first court date Wednesday to set up temporary custody, child support and alimony. I found out 4
days after my surgery that Craig has a 28 year old girlfriend HERE and he's moving back still. I was freakin' crushed, and said that I didn't want
her around the girls. He can't seem to understand why. Problem being that Morgan is the one that told me. He took her to a ball game the Sat after my
surgery, and introduced them. Grrrrrr.....nothing like finding out your parents are getting divorced and a week later meeting your dad's girlfriend.
She's been to TX twice to see him, the weekend before my surgery, and she took her KIDS and stayed there for a week over the 4th. I can't believe he's doing that, but it's starting to sink in.
We both met with my lawyer awhile back and Craig told him to write up everything I want and he'll sign it. He's giving me everything and not contesting anything. I guess that's good for me, but I can't see how this skank can be worth giving up everything you've worked for and over 1/2 of your income for the next 9+ years, but if he thinks that's what will make him happy, then whatever.
So, I'm just getting back to work, and all the bills Craig said he's been paying, he hasn't. Just wait until the court gets a load of that on Wednesday!!! He's digging his own hole, and pretty soon he'll be on the outside looking in and won't know what hit him.
I had a really hard time with all this in the beginning, but it's really all I had time to think about with not being able to work and all. But I'm getting better, I think now that I'm back to work and will have an income and be able to take care of things myself, it will get better.
I plan to get into school ASAP since if I get my RN, I'll make what Craig makes or more, and then I won't HAVE to depend on him if he gets herky jerky and decides not to pay child support or whatever. Plus, it's about time, I'm a big girl now. LOL And I certainly can't raise my three girls on what I make at this point.
So, there's my update. Thanks again for all the thoughts and prayers, I'll try and stop in more often.
She's been to TX twice to see him, the weekend before my surgery, and she took her KIDS and stayed there for a week over the 4th. I can't believe he's doing that, but it's starting to sink in.
We both met with my lawyer awhile back and Craig told him to write up everything I want and he'll sign it. He's giving me everything and not contesting anything. I guess that's good for me, but I can't see how this skank can be worth giving up everything you've worked for and over 1/2 of your income for the next 9+ years, but if he thinks that's what will make him happy, then whatever.
So, I'm just getting back to work, and all the bills Craig said he's been paying, he hasn't. Just wait until the court gets a load of that on Wednesday!!! He's digging his own hole, and pretty soon he'll be on the outside looking in and won't know what hit him.
I had a really hard time with all this in the beginning, but it's really all I had time to think about with not being able to work and all. But I'm getting better, I think now that I'm back to work and will have an income and be able to take care of things myself, it will get better.
I plan to get into school ASAP since if I get my RN, I'll make what Craig makes or more, and then I won't HAVE to depend on him if he gets herky jerky and decides not to pay child support or whatever. Plus, it's about time, I'm a big girl now. LOL And I certainly can't raise my three girls on what I make at this point.
So, there's my update. Thanks again for all the thoughts and prayers, I'll try and stop in more often.
28???????? What, is this his mid-life crisis? I can't believe
he introduced her to the girls so soon! I would've hoped he'd at least wait until everything is final. Can't you get him on infidelity?
